I have a thing against people who feel that they are superior over other people. It annoys me when they feel they can put down those people around them just because they think the others are doing something wrong in the way the live their lives. And worse, they constantly talk about the way other people’s problems and choices as though their own lives are affected — which aren’t really affected in any way.
But of course it’s fine if you’re merely concerned with the other person.. but to constantly talk about it like it’s a plague or a contagious disease is something else. My point here is, it’s not that big a deal. There are other bigger things to worry about. And to rant about the “wrong” choices of other people and share them to yet another set of people is totally meaningless. Just leave as it is to be between God and that other person.
I learned about the common mistake people commit at a very young age… it’s proclamation of self-righteouness. It’s like proclaiming you are this and that when in fact you are living a life filled with lies and shame. So my suggestion is, try to go on living your life fixing your own problems rather than showing others how to deal with theirs. And if possible, try to keep matters to yourself. You don’t have to tell the world about the righteous life you’re living and go judging the world and making them feel like sh*t due to the way they’ve screwed up so bad. It doesn’t work that way at all.
But another question is, is it really that bad? Maybe it’ll all be better soon. Maybe God has a far better plan. Who are we to question his power and faithfulness? What kind of mind have we that we even attempt to understand his will?
I don’t know why exactly I am blogging about this.. and I initially have no intention of sounding too pensive. The point I’m driving at is.. if we could cut other people some slack, then let’s do. It’s always less harmful to offer the benefit of the doubt. And of course, there’s also God who never overlooks his children and never forgets to make all things better.
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